Birthdays and Such

With mine and Karls family coming together birthdays are a huge concern. We have Kiersten and Melody a day apart and Kayleigh and Kayla on the same day. Amber and the child I'm with will be the only odd ones out. I'm left to decide how to handle this.
I generally will have a small party at the house for my girls and family and then take my kids to a place of choosing for a fun day out. Kier always chooses Disneyland (a tradition now) while Kayleigh is still young that she does something different every year. This year i'm trying to figure out an even point and integrate his children into the birthday system I have. Originally we planned on taking all the kids to Disneyland this week for several days but had those plans smashed when Melissa announced that she was going to take all her girls separately on their birthdays to Disneyland. It was a good thing I waited on getting the season passes.
Like I had posted in an earlier blog we then decided to take just Kier and Kayleigh with us. So now I'm left thinking what to do for his kids. Since Melody will be gone tomorrow for her birthday I told Karl we should have a lil surprise party for her. I went ahead and got a hold of his family and since it was such a short notice the earliest i can get everyone together is on Feb 7. It works out well cuz my girls will be with their dad this weekend and they will be here the next and I have some time to get things together.
I'm not sure what to do for the others but i will have time to think. I do however need to get off the comp order Melody's cake, make the reservations and pay the deposit.